The Science Of Kissing + 26 Tips To Be A Better Kisser, From Experts

“It’s so obvious, but many people are scared to ask their partner what they like because they think it will make them look foolish. In fact, it’s exactly the opposite!” says Carey. “Your partner may be sitting on a few things they want to tell you, but don’t know how to bring it up.” If it feels intimidating, you can think of it as a sexy and fun way to learn together, instead of something that indicates that something has been “wrong” up until now.

This Easy Sex Position Allows For Super-Deep Penetration (Read: Intense Orgasms)

Looking to switch it up from your classic missionary position? The butterfly position could be the one for you. It's actually a similar position that just looks more complex than it is, so don't be put off if sexual gymnastics aren't your thing. Here, we've collected everything you need to know to help you nail the butterfly. The butterfly position is a sex position where the penetrating partner is standing up while the receiver lies on their back on an elevated surface like a bed or table.

11 Places To Find Extremely Hot Erotica Made Specifically For Women

Erotica can be understood in a couple of different ways. In some definitions, it's any art form that deals with sexually arousing themes in a sensual manner, whereas others think of it as specifically the nonvisual version of porn—i.e., written or narrative material specifically made to arouse and aid sex or masturbation. When it comes to women specifically, erotica has often been held up as being especially beloved.

Do You Have A Praise Kink? Read These Phrases & See How You Feel

Praise kinks seem to be all over social media lately. TikTok now features reams of videos tagged with #praisek1nk with millions of views apiece, with people longing to be called a good girl or good boy and not afraid to discuss it. Google Trends shows that from April 2021 onward, searches for the phrase have skyrocketed. Considering the year we've collectively had, it's maybe not surprising that people are looking for a little positive boost.

Yes, The "Male G-Spot" Is A Thing: Here's How To Stimulate It

The male G-spot is the colloquial term for the prostate, also sometimes referred to as the P-spot. The prostate is a walnut-size gland that's part of the reproductive system in people with penises. When stimulated, the prostate secretes a thin milky fluid that contains an enzyme called a prostate-specific antigen (PSA), which helps to keep semen uncoagulated so that sperm can successfully travel during ejaculation and join together with an egg to create a zygote.

20 Steamy Role-Play Ideas For Tapping Into Your Wildest Fantasies In Bed

Role-play is when you take on the persona of someone else while having sex. For example, a couple may have sex while pretending to be strangers who met at a bar or acting out a scene where one person is royalty and the other is a servant. The role-play can be as developed and complex or as simple as you like: You can incorporate costumes, backstories, and music to set the scene, or you can just narrate what you're doing from a different perspective.

What Does It Mean To Be Polysexual? (Hint: It Has Nothing To Do With Polyamory)

The term polysexual comes from the Greek root poly, which means "many or much." A person who is polysexual is attracted to people of many genders, although not necessarily people of all genders. For example, a polysexual person might be interested in men, agender people, and nonbinary people, but not women. "Like any conversation with anyone about a label they may choose to describe their experience, it is best to ask that person what that label means to them and not assume their experience”.

How To Actually Nail The 69 Position, Because It's A Classic For A Reason

The 69 position is an oral sex position where two partners are giving each other oral sex simultaneously. It gets the name because, when two people are engaged in it, their joined bodies appear to be curved together like the numbers 6 and 9 next to each other. The term comes originally from the French soixante-neuf (literally "sixty-nine") and has been in use for a few hundred years. 69ing also shows up in the Kama Sutra under the name "the congress of a crow."

Just A Big List Of Popular Kinks & Fetishes, In Case You're Curious

Kink is anything that veers away from the "normal" or expected sexual path. It's used to describe "things that are of particular sexual curiosity and interest to someone, particularly those things, behaviors, or practices that are outside of normative sexual behavior," explains Kyle Zrenchik, Ph.D., LMFT, ACS, a couples' and sex therapist and clinical director at ALL IN Therapy Clinic in Minneapolis. The term comes from the Dutch word "kink" referring to a twist or bend in a rope, he adds.

This Underrated Sex Position Might Make It Easier For Women To Orgasm

Since the position involves facing away from your partner, reverse cowgirl is good for people who feel that eye contact is a little too intense. "It's also an excellent position for folks who aren't ready for their partner to see their orgasm face, as any chance of your partner seeing what you look like in the thralls of pleasure disappears when you turn around. This position can be helpful for self-conscious folks who want to sink into the sensations without feeling the need to perform.”

What Does It Mean To Be Bigender? + How It Relates To Other Identities

A bigender person is a person with two distinct gender identities, which they either experience alternately or simultaneously. For example, a bigender person could be a man and a woman, or a woman and agender. According to sex therapist Aliyah Moore, Ph.D., a common misconception about bigender people is that they necessarily must have two genders which are somehow "opposites" on the gender spectrum, but this is not the case.

Negging: 19 Signs, Why People Do It & Better Ways To Flirt

Ever interacted with someone who seemed to be expressing interest in you...by making fun of you? This confusing behavior is known as negging, and oddly, it's often used as a form of flirting. We all desire and deserve healthy, mutually supportive relationships, but sometimes we can find ourselves entangled with people who manipulate and harm us. Why do some people get a rise out of putting others down?

35 Extremely Hot Erogenous Zones You May Have Never Considered

No discussion of erogenous zones is complete without mention of the beloved clitoris. It's probably the best known (though famously widely neglected) erogenous zone on the bodies of people with vaginas. "The clitoris is one of the primary areas linked to sexual pleasure," notes Megan Harrison, LMFT, founder of Couples Candy. "In fact, because the clitoris does not have a reproductive function, it is believed by many scientists to exist solely for sexual pleasure”.

From Butt Plugs To Vibrators, These Are 22 Of The Best Anal Toys To Buy

Anal sex toys are for everyone. Whether you're a size queen or a beginner who is looking for something small and simple, there's a sex toy out there for you and your anus. While anal sex has become more and more mainstream, some people may still feel a little nervous about exploring this area of the body. Anal toys can be a low-pressure way to try out some exploration without a partner around.

This Sex Technique Can Produce Mind-Blowing Orgasms For Men

"Prostate milking is the activity of stimulating the prostate gland by applying direct pressure against it with a finger through the rectum," says Megan Harrison, LMFT, founder of Couples Candy, a sex and relationship advice hub. "It feels like a fleshy bulb of tissue on the front wall of the rectal lining. 'Milking' the prostate refers to the act of massaging the prostate until prostate fluid comes out [of the penis]. You can also use sex toys such as vibrators, dildos, and plugs…

Here's Exactly How To Make A Threesome Happen, From People Who've Had Them

So you've woken up from a few nights in a row of hot, sweaty, threesome sex dreams, and now you can't wait to try it out in reality. But you're in a monogamous relationship currently, and you need your partner to also be on board. How do you bring up the idea of a threesome? What's the best approach to this? You could try using a light approach. "Sometimes jokes are a good way to break the ice and start talking about adding a third person for a sexy encounter," Lawrenz says.
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